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[lolastar]

pls dont take this as critique or me being judgemental or thinking im better than others, but i dont get how people arent getting tired of partying (drinking) as a part of their weekly routine after doing it for more than ten years. arent their bodies just screaming NOOO. cos my weak ass did that after just a few years!! but also, that way of hanging out seems so shallow and boring to me now? when thats the only way u do it. and i always get confused when my friends ask me if i wanna go to a bar or something with them when i havent rly done that since i was like 23. i get that its easy to get stuck tho… i just rather stick with habits that feels good to me. i guess im thousands of years older than everybody else

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[softsoft]

yeah i have friends like this too, i guess they just like drinking... i hate when their standard idea for a hangout when we meet is "go to the bar" bc then we just get drunk and so our communication goes crazy, i hate what alcohol does to mine and everyone's minds tbh. Then, the bar is also an annoying overwhelming LOUD ASS space. if u wanted to talk to me and catch up WHY did u invite me to a bar bro? i much prefer walks and sitting outside or at our homes together, where we can be face to face and chat, and also hang around and explore the outside or the stuff we have in our homes... so simple cheap and fun

[lolastar]

yesss!!! taking walks is my favourite way to hang out cos it makes talking easy like the thoughts are able to flow swiftly when we walk! but even when i used to drink a lot id prefer to do it in nature or very quiet bars haha bars are just too much!! i have friends who love crowded and noisy places tho…i dont rly get it but i guess it gives them energy instead of draining them

[softsoft]

yes walks are the best<3 so much to see and talk abt and have funn and change ur path randomly<3